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11 June 2015

Comic-Con: accessibility, appearance diversity, escapism and fittingin. (Giveaway closed.)

I have been given tickets to Oz Comic-Con in exchange for writing this post. I have not been paid to write it, though I’ve done a truckload of research for it - it’s been a fun post to write! 

I've taken the appearance diversity and disability view - something the promotors had not considered until they read my draft. 

There is also a giveaway for you - so read on! (EDIT: 18 June - the giveaway has been drawn and winners notified.)

Corbin dressed up at Comic-COn. Text reads 'appearance diversity and accessibility at Comic-Con'

When I put my hand up to write about Oz Comic-Con (held in Melbourne on 27 and 28 June at the Melbourne Convention and Exhibtiion Centre), I hadn’t considered the depth that this post could take. Sure, I am a fangirl from way back (though I’ve never been to a Comic-Con) and Adam is a regular Comic-Con devotee. But then I got chatting with Sandra about how else it could fit with my blog - and she mentioned disability. Lightbulb moment! In 2013, 33,000 people attended Comic-Con in Melbourne alone. So if 20% of Australians have a disability, perhaps 6,600 Oz Comic-Con attendees had a disability of some sort?! And Sandra and I wanted to hear from some of these attendees.

First though - my devoted fiancé dressed up in costume for his lady’s blog! Nawww. When we first met online, I had a look through his profile pictures and there was one of him dressed up as Luke Skywalker. I dismissed this as cute, if not a little nerdy, and didn’t think about it until this post opportunity came up. I asked if he still has the costume - and of course, it was hanging in the cupboard!
Adam dressed as Luke Skywalker
I asked Adam what he likes about Oz Comic-Con. He’s a big fan of Star Wars and hopes to see more Star Wars exhibits this year. He is very quiet and introverted but loves dressing up as his favourite character, and he has the confidence to do so because there are other fans like him there. This is the cutest!
Adam dressed as Luke Skywalker
And now onto disability at Oz Comic-Con.

The Australian Comic-Con website dos not feature any accessibility information (but I will pass on this tip). However, I’ve been told by the an Oz Comic-Con representative that the venue is accessible and companion cards are accepted. My friend Melissa said there is wheelchair access and priority queues, but wait times can be long. She also told me there’t not always sun protection when queuing outside, and there is only the option to sit on the ground if you cannot stand. She said the "average day can be up to 10kms walking + 4-5 hrs in queues". There is also an anti-harassment policy, encouraging respectful, inclusive behaviour. The international Comic-Con website provides extensive accessibility information.

In the USA, the comic and fan convention culture extends to in-depth discussions and exhibitions around disability issues. 'Cripping the Con', held in March 2015, was a symposium discussing perceptions of people with disabilities, as well as the portrayal of disability in games, and possibilities of alternate bodies in the virtual world. And in May, Denver Comic-Con featured a program called Virtual Ability, to help people with disabilities receive support within virtual worlds. Virtual worlds allow PWDs the opportunity live life as an able-bodied person - they can do activities like dancing and hiking.

I love seeing people dressed for Comic-Con (and similar CosPlay events). I love the fandom, but more so, I love the willingness to stand out in regular spaces like on public transport before and after the event, and I love the connectedness of attendees when they find their tribe. It’s a hive of self expression.

The art of dressing up diverts onlookers’ attention to the features of the costume. Wendy, who has Ichthyosis and would like to go to a Comic-Con some day loves to dress up as Wonder Woman. "You can be who you want to be and it take the stares away from your skin so people focus on your outfit instead”, Wendy told me.

The people I’ve known to partake in CosPlay and attend events like Oz Comic-Con (or 'Cons' as regulars call them) are sometimes shy and introverted, and perhaps haven’t always felt they could be themselves.

But these events allow them to fit in and be themselves, and as my friend Eliza pointed out, they might be dressing up as a character that they relate to or aspire to. Eliza, who will be dressing up as a character from FireFly, will be going to the Melbourne event for the first time this year. She is going because it is affordable and “will be cool to be around people who love nerd shit so much and meet really interesting people." Eliza is a wheelchair user. She believes Oz Comic-Con is a form of escapism, and also relatability. “It can be comforting to people who are different because those characters are from such different worlds and are essentially them or their heroes”, Eliza said. 

Eight year old Corbin (featured in the top photo and below) has Lymphatic Malformation which causes an enlarged face. He regularly goes to Comic-Con with his family. He sometimes has photos with other cosplayers, and recognises the characters they dress up as.”It’s just their “thing”, he said.
Corbin, dressed up in costume, with a character at Comic-Con
I think Corbin looks like a superhero even when he's not in costume! He told me he loves dressing up because it’s fun! "It’s a bit like free dress day at school. It’s like I’m an actor in a movie or something, it makes me feel adventurous. Everyone else does, it makes me feel the same as everyone else”, he said. I love this! He told me it feels “normal” to be part of a big crowd of people in costume.

I asked Corbin if people stare at him for how awesome he looks? “Sometimes”, he told me. "Sometimes I’m shy. In the real world people stare at me because of my looks but at Con they stare because my dressing up is cool. I feel like I’m going to have lots of fun at the next Con because I’m cosplaying Toothless.”

Corbin feels very included - he said "Con is for everyone, I feel like I am part of those people."

Corbin’s mum Roni offered another perspective, one of good intentions, but awkward for the person who commented on Corbin’s appearance. “We had an experience he had where he was not in costume, and a guy asked him where he got his cool mask and who he was supposed to be smile emoticon”, Roni said. “[The man] was terribly embarrassed when we told him it was his face, but I guess in the context of con the intent of asking such things seemed ... less offensive than in regular space?"

That was such an interesting exchange - what was a compliment in a specific costumed setting could have been an insult outside of a Con.

Kellie is another regular fan convention attendee, going as many as she can afford. She has brittle bones (Osteogenisis Imperfecta). She told me: "I am only 3ft tall (44 years old) and am in a wheelchair 99% of the time. I use a mobility scooter at the cons mainly because I feel safer in such a huge crowd, and also I get too tired pushing myself around in my chair all day. I can use crutches, but only for very short distances. I have found that most of the cons have had amazing accessibility. Oz Comic-Con being the best. They are really accommodating and the staff and volunteers are all incredibly helpful."

Kellie, in a wheelchair, dressed up in a costume, holding a gun

"I go to at least 2 or 3 cons a year. So far this year I have been to Oz Comi-Con in Adelaide and to Supanova in Melbourne. I'm planning on going to Sydney for Oz Comi-Con in September. I've been going to them for about 7 years now”, she said. "I have made so many friends at the cons - all able bodied people. Its just awesome to be amongst people who have the same interests as you and are passionate about the same things. (And to not be laughed at for it).
Kellie, in a wheelchair, dressed up in a costume, holding a gun
"None of my family or friends here are into the same things I am, so they think I am strange. So its great to be in a place where you feel normal and can totally be yourself. I don't dress up often. Mainly because I can't afford to buy a decent costume. Also I find it difficult moving around in costume and going to the toilet and so forth. I have dressed mainly as Stargate SG-1 officers. You kind of just fit in, and don't feel weird about it. There are so many more intricate costumes around that you just blend in. 
Kellie, in a wheelchair, dressed up in a costume, holding a gun
"I really do love the Cons as I love meeting the actors, and hearing their panels. And they are all so welcoming and friendly. I also love going as I get to see my friends that I have made at them. I even keep in touch with them and see them between cons now. They are the most kind hearted and generous people you could ever meet", Kellie said.

Fitting in - and standing out for the right reasons - is so important for people with disabilities and facial differences. Events like Oz Comic-Con represent appearance diversity at its most voluntary and inclusive. I can’t wait to go!

I am giving away two family passes to Oz Comic-Con Melbourne (two adults and two children per pass to the Melbourne show only). To enter, tell me what you like best about dressing up in costume. Get in quick entries close 5.00 pm AEST Wednesday 17 June. Leave a comment below (don’t forget to leave your email address so I can contact you!).

(EDIT: 18 June - the giveaway has been drawn and winners notified.)

Oz Comic-Con 2015 details: Melbourne: June 27-28, Brisbane: September 19-20, Sydney: September 26-27. 
Oz Comic-Con children cosplayers

08 December 2014

Happy birthday to me and my blog! Giant giveaway!

It's my birthday today! Yay! I'm 33. I never work on my birthday but this year I'm going to work for my birthday because I've had a few days off lately. I joked that working on my birthday is my present to the team. And then I'm off for dinner. I bought myself a MacBook Air - I'm so proud to have become good with money - I bought this outright using some prize money from this blog. Here's a cheesy birthday themed photo - a boudoir photo as Adam called it.

32 really was a great year! Maybe the best. I started work in an amazing communications role and team, spoke at many events and participated in The Guardian's diverse writers program. I've lost a few friends but gained many more. I went overseas for six and a half weeks - saw eight countries and met some wonderful people. I bought a new car and a MacBook. I talked to Darren Hayes on his podcast. I was named as one of Australia's most influential women. And most importantly, I got engaged to the most caring, loving man - and bought my wedding dress.

I can't wait to see what 33 has in store.

Next Tuesday my blog turns five! Here's my first post. And here's five of my favourite posts over the years.

When I got engaged

Ichthyosis Awareness Month and 2013 and 2014 (ok that's way more than five!)

When I talked to Darren Hayes

My skin hunger series

Talking about appearance diversity in the UK

I love blogging. I love starting out with a blank screen and making something nice for you to read. I love moving people with words - making them think and laugh and sometimes cry. It's an utter privilege to have people read my writing, and to continue to do so, and to leave comments. Thank you. And I love the connectedness - meeting people online and in real life that have become close friends.

I've grown so much. I've come to know myself through my writing, and through the relationships I've made with others. My blog started off as a diary, and then I became focused on appearance activism and Ichthyosis awareness. I was single when I started, and now I've got this amazing fiancé. I graduated from my Masters degree and gone on to work in a communications role in my day job - my dream role. I wanted to be published in the media, and now I have a great freelancing writing and speaking career that I created because of this blog. I made it happen. I've got an amazing readership and communities on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram - I love seeing these communities grow and become more engaged.

To celebrate my birthday and my blog turning five, I have an enormous giveaway for you! Because it's you - my readers - who have been with me, supported me and helped me achieve things I'd only dreamed of. Thank you. And the best kind of presents are those you give others, right? And all the goodies are very me - I love cooking, eating and handmade!

This post hasn't been sponsored - there are no affiliate links and I haven't been paid to write this. I disclose that I was given a some items to keep - some kitchenware from House, clothes from St Frock, a Summerlandish book and a bracelet from The Jewel Collective. I have met many amazing people through blogging and many of them are creative business types who I approached for the giveaway. They have been very generous. Please stop by their sites and say hello!

So here's the giveaway. You can enter here.

Tell me what you've enjoyed most about my blog, and what prize you'd like to win. (Competition details below.)

Brunch with me!

Three blog readers are invited to have brunch with me (paid for by me) at a cool cafe in Melbourne in the new year. I love meeting readers in person - though most of the time it's in passing that we never get to chat properly. Brunch is my favourite meal and I'd love to have your company one day soon. You'd have to be in Melbourne or get yourself to Melbourne for this one! I can't pay for your airfare I'm sorry!

Bowls and necklace from Misskelly Made in Tasmania

Miss Kelly Made in Tasmania makes gorgeous bright vessels and jewellery. I'm giving away a set of three faceted bowls and a round necklace.

Miss Kelly Made in Tasmania has an online store, and Facebook and Instagram accounts.

A baking pack from Jason who blogs at Don't Boil the Sauce.

My friendship with Jason started out when I found his recipe for slow cooked baked beans. Seriously amazing. We chat a lot on Twitter. We've gone out for laughter filled lunches and dinners many times since - most recently to Maha where we met Shane Delia.

Jason has generously donated this prize pack.

 

He says:

"No birthday is complete without cake so this prize pack will have you well

on your way to blowing out the candles.....candles not included.

Prize pack includes: 1x 21cm loose base round cake tin, 1x mixing bowl, 1x set of measuring cups, 1x mini sieve, 1x mini whisk; 2x cake boards, 1x cupcake oven mit, 1x 145g cake toppers (CAKE BLING!!!), 1x Skype call with Jason from www.dontboilthesauce.com to talk about cakes and all things home baking - Valued at $40"

He blogs at Don't Boil The Sauce and can be found on Facebook and Twitter. Go show him some love!

A bakery candle and earrings from Aacute

I LOVE candles but Adam thinks I have too many. I bought a couple of candles from Melbourne crafters Aacute at recent markets - a lemon friand and a chocolate brownie. These smell like the real thing. I also bought some earrings as a gift for a loved one.

 

The lovely ladies from Aacute are giving away a jam donut candle and a pair of drop earrings. The winner can choose any colour combination of earrings.

Check out Aacute's Website, Etsy store, Facebook and Instagram.

A Blog With Pip e-course

Pip Lincolne is a blogging crafting creative goddess and I LOVE HER! I did her Blog with Pip e-course this year - it's designed for new bloggers and crafty types - but I got so much out of it - design, writing prompts and most wonderfully, a great community. I love connecting with them in the Facebook group and meeting up with them at real life events.

Pip is giving away one place in her course, plus some vintage goodies. You'll get so much out of this e-course.

Check out her blog, Facebook, Instagram and the course details.

A Garnier pack

Sometimes I go to an event and get a goodie bag. Most of the time it contains makeup which I cannot use. I got a heap of Garnier products from the Kidspot party last weekend and I'm giving these to you!!

The pack contains Perfect Blur cream, BB cream, Goodbye Damage shampoo and conditioner and Micellar cleansing water. I'm also throwing in some other samples.

$120 Food Challenge Book

My dear friend Sandra - a blogger turned cookbook author - is giving away her fantastic book. It's filled with recipes to cook on a budget.

Sandra's cooked for me a number of times this year - hosting an amazing high tea as well as bringing me food when I was in hospital. Her food is just wonderful.

Sandra's blog can be found here, and she's on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

A kitchen pack from House Essendon

I've got a friend who manages the House stores and she's seen my love of cooking. House has kindly donated this prize pack to give away - it contains an Alex Liddy dip and server, an Alex Liddy tree serving platter, three Alex Liddy star bowls and a Baccarat salad spinner. I'm throwing in some food magazines so you can get cooking straight away!

Check out House online and on Instagram Twitter and Facebook.

Brooches and earrings from Blossom and Cat

Last week I went to the Etsy night market and grabbed some Christmas presents. I fell in love with the glittery pineapples from Blossom and Cat - buying a brooch for me and another little treat for a gift.

Helen from Blossom and Cat has put together a lovely pack for a winner.

Issue 17 of Tickle the Imagination Magazine - Rock, Paper, Scissors

A glitter pineapple brooch

A hand painted watermelon brooch

Hand painted pineapple earrings.

You can visit Blossom and Cat's store - and say hello on Facebook and Instagram.

The Jewel Collective

My friend Sian has just started the Jewel Collective in November. She sent me a lovely bracelet from her boutique a few weeks ago - it features rose good stars - I love it! The packaging was also to die for. Sian is giving away some earrings to one lucky reader.

The earrings are from the Andromeda collection and are made from pink sapphires and rose gold vermeil (rose gold plated sterling silver). The RRP is $125.

You can see the collection at http://www.thejewelcollective.com or follow The Jewel Collective on Instagram or Facebook.

Be Awesome banner

I met Deb through the Blog With Pip course and found out about her amazing crafting abilities on Instagram. I bought a fruit salad brooch which makes people smile when I wear it. Deb has made this cute banner for the giveaway - it's worth $45.

Deb blogs at Sew Crafty Goodness. Visit her online shop, Etsy Shop, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram or Pinterest.

A CurlyPops brooch

I met Camille in 2010 because we both used to write for the same website and we're both bloggers. She's become one of my best friends and I'm so pleased to announce she will be my chief bridesmaid when I marry.

I am giving away one rainbow brooch to a lucky reader.

You can check out her blog, store, Instagram and Facebook.

Three Summerlandish books

Summer Land is a blogger and author of the very not so serious memoir, Summerlandish: Do As I Say, Not As I Did. Her writing has appeared in Elle Australia, Women's Health, Cosmo Aus & UK & Mamamia. She's giving away three signed books. She dresses like her name!

I met Summer Land at the Melbourne Writers Festival this year. We were on a panel together. We bonded in the green room of the Toff In Town, counting the number of Dick and Balls on the walls. We never drew our own there. I read her book on the plane and laughed out loud.

Find Summer on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and her blog.

$100 St Frock voucher

My friend Sandradee is a superb business woman. She run St Frock, an online store. I met her three years ago through this blog, and I caught up with her and the team in October.

She gave me some clothes including these amazing pants!

I am giving away a $100 St Frock voucher. People who want to win this voucher are asked to sign up to the Frock Club - let me know if you do in your entry!

Shop at St Frock online, or say hello to them on Facebook, Twitter or Instragram.

One Rulitos handcrafted necklace

I came to know Nerea through her mum, who worked with me. Nerea is a silversmith - creating beautiful jewellery for her store - Rulitos.

She's giving away away a necklace, designed especially for this blog birthday.

Nerea says:

"I have created a pendant to celebrate your blog's 5th birthday. It's an eco friendly piece that was created by melting little pieces of recycled .925 sterling silver then rolling the piece down over and over into a thin sheet which I then sawed the design out of. Due to the process, it's a bit rustic... 'imperfect' even... but I believe there's more charm and beauty in imperfection.

The pattern I printed was inspired by the 5 years of your blog, I think of them as dandelions or candles, something to make a wish upon :)."

Check out Rulitos' store, Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

One $50 and one $20 voucher for Red Phoenix Emporium

I found out about Willow and Lotus and their jewellery store through superstar blogger Faux Fuchsia. We met over three years ago and have been friends ever since.

Red Phoenix Emporium are giving away two vouchers - one $50 and one $20 voucher. They've got plenty of items that are under $50 including tassel earrings, bags, scarves, bag tassels, bracelets and homewares.

Visit the Red Phoenix Emporium website, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest and Facebook.

So, those are the prizes up for grabs. Please stop by their social media sites to say hello, or buy something from them if you want to. Enjoy! And thank you again!

How to enter:

You can enter via this form. Tell me what you've enjoyed most about my blog, and what prize you'd like to win.

Entries are open from 7.00 am 8 December AEDST to 5.00 pm 16 December AEDST. Winners will be notified by email around 20 December. I cannot guarantee you will receive your prize by Christmas day.

Each winner wins one prize pack only.

International readers can enter.

Your personal details including email and mailing address will not be passed onto any third party unless you are the winner. I will contact you via email to confirm you've won and then pass on your details to the prize provider only.

Your email address will be placed into my email address book and used when I develop my newsletter. For now, I have no idea. I promise I won't spam you.

If you want to brunch with me, you have to be in Melbourne or be able to get yourself to Melbourne. I can pay for the brunch but not your travel costs sorry.

If you want to enter the St Frock completion, they have asked you sign up to the Frock Club on their website. Let me know in a comment on on the form that you've done so.

If you win the Red Phoenix Emporium prize, you'll have to sign up to their website to use the voucher.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

28 October 2014

Love Your Sister book giveaway plus TedX videos.

It's been such a privilege to cover some of the Love Your Sister journey on my blog.

Samuel Johnson (actor, voiceover artist and all round nice guy) spent one year riding more than 15,000 km on a unicycle. He did it because his sister Connie is dying from breast cancer. It started off as a dare - Connie joked that he should unicycle around Australia, spreading the breast aware message as her legacy. He took on the challenge and raised over more than $1 Million for the Garvan Institute - the money goes towards breast cancer research. Together, Sam and Connie and the Love Your Sister team have raised awareness and money, and touched so many people on their journey.

I remember that Connie's prognosis was not good at the start of the Love Your Sister unicycle trip. Sam's send off was so emotional - no one was sure whether they'd be reunited after a year. But she was. She was there to greet Sam at the finsh line. Love Your Sister has buoyed Connie. And even after the unicycle ride, she's been touring and fundraising with Sam. She's still here.

When the ride finished, Sam made it his mission to make finding a cure for cancer through Love Your Sister his job. He and Connie have worked with Garvan, spoken at TedX (those are below) and met with the Prime Minister - all in the name of cancer research and awareness. It's given him a new lease on life too. I was lucky to be invited to the Love Your Sister homecoming party on the day Sam returned. There was a special interview being filmed with Guy Pearce - and the conversation was raw. The guests were in tears. I think Love Your Sister has not only prolonged Connie's life but saved Sam. Watch that interview here.

Somehow in between working with Garvan, fundraising, film making and Connie's treatment, Samuel and Connie have found time to write a book!

Here's what publisher Hachette has to say about the book:

"In their book, LOVE YOUR SISTER, these two remarkable Australians share their tale, from their childhood, through to the finish line and beyond in this truly unique story. Part memoir, part travel diary, part conversation, LOVE YOUR SISTER is an inspiring and unforgettable book that shows just how far one man will go for his sister."

You can purchase it on Booktopia, Bookworld, or iTunes. A portion of the sales will go to the Garvan Institute.

I'm excited to give a copy away. Tell me what extreme you'd go to to help your sister (or loved one) fight their biggest battle. Competition closes Tuesday 4 November at 5.00 pm.

Donate to Love Your Sister

Watch my video with Samuel

Read about the Llfe Your Sister return

 

 

 

 

 

13 August 2013

Zac and Mia by AJ Betts: friendship formed on the hospital ward - Interview with the author and a giveaway.

Book cover: Zac and Mia by AJ Betts

A few weeks ago I listened to a Life Matters podcast that featured an interview with young adult fiction author Amanda (AJ) Betts. She spoke to Natasha Mitchell about her latest release, Zac and Mia. AJ Betts is an author and a teacher on a hospital ward in Perth. The book is about the strong bond between two young people, Zac and Mia, who meet in the oncology ward. I had to read this book! When I bought it, I read it in two sittings. And I loved it. It's beautifully written and features believable characters. I wanted Zac to be my friend.

Zac and Mia resonated with me so much because I have spent lots of time in the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne as a baby and child, and then in the Albury Base Hospital as a young adult. I made friends for life in both hospitals (particularly in Albury), went to school at both hospitals, and became an empowered patient due to interest I took in my condition and in the relationships I developed with my doctors. I go to the Royal Melbourne Hospital now, and the head dermatologist is the one I've seen since I was six. I'm now a bit of a teacher-patient, working with my dermatology team to deliver lectures to doctors at the hospital and also in the medical program at a university. I also used to mentor young people in the Chronic Illness Peer Support program at the Royal Children's Hospital from 2008-2011, and the friendship Zac and Mia formed reminded me a lot of the friendships among young people I mentored.

As I read this book, I thought of the great friends I'd made in hospital - especially the Jones family who I love dearly. Hospital can be a lonely place, and often patients are coming to terms with a big change in their lives, and so it's nice to find friends who already know what this situation is like. A lot of the time when I was in primary school, I wanted to stay in hospital because kids treated me better in there. I also thought of the maturity that young people with chronic illnesses need to develop, and the way peers with chronic illnesses just get it.

Thank you so much for writing this book, Amanda - it's meant so much to me.

Picture of author AJ Betts

I got in touch with Amanda for an interview. The book has stuck with me a week after reading it, and so my questions to her were so involved. I wanted to know about Zac and Mia from the author's point of view. Her answers as as beautiful as the writing in her book.

Carly: Tell me a little about the book in your own words.

Amanda: "Zac and Mia is a story of two teenagers whose lives are altered because of treatment for cancer. They develop an unpredictable friendship that is tested in the real world."

Tell me about your role as a hospital teacher. (I had the BEST teacher in the Royal Children's - I wish I was still in touch with her).

"My role is to provide an educational service for teenagers who unable to attend school for health reasons. I liaise with their enrolled school and teach the students one-to-one, ensuring they keep up to date so they can transition back to school when they're well enough. I've been working there for eight years.

The book shows how young people mature so much because of a chronic or terminal illness, and trivial things like split ends or parties don't matter so much. I could absolutely relate to this. Tell me a little about Zac and Mia's need to mature quickly, and especially the change in Mia.

As you know, the hospital world is completely different to a typical adolescent environment, such as a school. The things that define you in school - peer groups, academic success, hobbies, appearance, etc - don't carry across into hospital. Suddenly you're without your friends and the structure of school, and even your appearance is changing. Then there's the prospect of serious illness, pain, sacrifice and mortality to contend with. Teenagers, unfortunately, have their world view pulled out from under them and they're forced to reconsider what's really important. Mia tries to maintain the illusion of perfection, which exhausts and unsettles her. She has to confront what many people don't really grasp until their thirties, or older: that it doesn't matter how people judge her; that real friends will support her; and that beauty is tied up with imperfection, vulnerability and love."

I loved Zac's friendship with Cam - the age gap was significant. Do you think that certain relationships come by because of illness? I think the people you meet is one of the silver linings of illness.

"I've noticed that age gaps sometimes disappear in the hospital setting. Cam is a really genuine guy who connects with Zac. The situation allows an individual's qualities to take prominence over the obvious differentiations of age, class or gender. They're all on a level playing field in hospital."

Technology has changed since I was in hospital as a young person. I'd meet people in the ward and communicate with them by letter and sometimes phone. If they lived close by I'd meet them once a year (my family still makes a 1.5 hour trip to a family I met in hospital in 1989 every Boxing Day). Now young people have social media to connect. How important do you think this instant communication is when stuck in hospital?

"Social media has the benefit of being immediate, eg Zac can update his status and receive sixty comments in an hour. But there's the flip side to this: instant communication is reflexive and not necessarily meaningful. After each barrage of online comments, Zac feels inevitably lonely. The most meaningful communication he has is with others in hospital, as only they can fully appreciate the reality of the situation."

The Internet has also meant that patients are a lot more educated (and connected) about their illnesses. Zac was rattling off a lot of stats about cancer (well done on your research!). Do you think the instant and vast way of patients can research their illness means they may become more more scared about the diagnosis. There's also the power of blogging and sharing stories (which of course, I am a strong advocate of). Did Zac blog? Do you think him reading blogs and forums late at night was just as powerful as him blogging? (I loved the blogging reference.)

"Thanks! The Internet becomes Zac's forbidden secret. While it's useful for Zac to educate himself, he becomes too fixated (I think) on stats and figures. There's a risk of placing too much importance on these when, as Mia says later, every case is unique. The Internet can also be a minefield for anyone trying to research/diagnose an illness, and it can certainly incite fear. I found the blogs to be helpful, both for my research but also as a resource for Zac and Mia. Blogs make each case unique and often provide helpful tips for support. Zac didn't blog - he's an avoider, though of a different kind to Mia - though he does take great comfort from reading them. It's the only time he lets himself connect to his own emotions. He finds the blogs heartbreaking, as I did when I read many online."

Why did you write the book? It's such a valuable story - where do you hope it goes? I think it could also give young people without illnesses a great insight into what it's like to have one, and maybe make them think about how they treat people who are doing it tough. Are you glad it's touching more than just the demographic of the Zac and Mia?

"I hope that all readers can connect with the story. Illness isn't the main focus of the book - it's the catalyst for bringing them together and a motivator behind some decisions. The focus is on two individuals trying to work out what's best for them, and I think people of all backgrounds are responding to these characters.

I wrote the book because I wanted to try a 'romance' of sorts. I chose the hospital setting because it's familiar to me and I'm inspired by the incredible teenagers I've known over the years. I admire their courage, humour and compassion, and I believe we can all benefit from seeing the world through their perspective, even if it's just for a day."

AJ Betts' publisher, Text Publishing, has given me a signed copy of the book away for one of you readers.

To win, comment below telling me about an unlikely place you've struck up a friendship.

Entries close at 5.00 pm Tuesday 20 August. Please leave a valid email address if you aren't logging in with a Google account or linking back to your blog. This means I can contact you if you win!

Good luck!

If you're not a winner, you can purchase the book from Text Publishing.

 

26 March 2012

Bill Cunningham New York DVD giveaway!

About two months ago I saw a documentary that made me so excited for my trip to New York. Bill Cunningham New York documents the story of an octogenarian photographer, cycling the streets of New York City, snapping shots of women who catch his eye.

Bill Cunningham loves accessible fashion. And so do I. I was with girlfriends at dinner the other night, and while loitering in the foyer of the restaurant saying goodbye, I nudged one of the girls and said "look look, I want to dress like her", pointing to a girl wearing a gorgeous peach floaty dress and a faux fur shrug Perfection. And so we all turned our heads to ooh and ahh, and all agreed that we could achieve that look very easily.

Here is part of my review:
 Aside from his dedication to doing what he loves, for the love of it only - was his acceptance and open mindedness towards New York's diverse community, despite his generation. He's friends with people of all ages, races and sexual orientation.

Another thing I noticed were his older female friends who were ageing proudly - looking glamourous - dripping with jewels and wearing luxurious clothing, and maintaining youthful spirit (Iris Apfel classes herself as 'the world's oldest teenager') but their faces were marked with age spots and wrinkles. It was beautiful to see.

Watching this documentary gave me a sense of excitement about what's to come when I go to New York. I thought about what clothes I will pack (the big issues) and the sights I'd like to visit. I'd LOVE to meet Bill! The documentary gave me the confidence to just be myself (in New York and elsewhere) - for individuality is interesting.
You can red my whole review of the doco here.

The lovely people at Madman Entertainment read my review and were kind enough to send me some DVDs to give away to my blog readers. I have four DVDs to give away - three region four DVDs (suitable for Australian DVD players) and one region one DVD (which plays on DVD players programmed for world wide or region one codes).

Bill Cunningham New York would appeal to fashionistas, street style enthusiasts and those going to BlogHer '12 in New York this August.

To enter, leave a comment telling me what's your favourite thing about street style. Perhaps it's inspiration for an addition to your wardrobe, or maybe you love being photographed by a street style snapper. Remember to leave your contact details so I can contact you when you win. Looking forward to seeing your entries.

Entries close 5.00 pm Australian Eastern Time Monday 2 April 2012. Good luck!

16 May 2011

Hungry Designs giveaway!

I discovered the fantastic Hungry Designs when I was at Finders Keepers last month. I loved the quirky, girly jewellery designed and illustrated by Amanda Whitelaw. The designs are a little bit retro, a little bit kitsch, a little bit roller derby and lots of fun. The illustrations are detailed and vibrantly coloured. Perfect to brighten a winter outfit!!

You can buy her jewellery online and at a number of stockists. You can also follow Hungry Designs on Facebook or Twitter.

Amanda has been kind enough to donate three brooches to me to give away on Tune into Radio Carly!


To enter, please leave a comment on this post. And you may also want to become a follower of this blog on Google Friend Connect, or on my Facebook or Twitter accounts - but there's no pressure! Entry is open to everyone across the world. And the competition closes 5.00 pm Australian Eastern Standard Time Monday 23 May. Three winners will be drawn soon after.

Thanks for entering, and thanks to Amanda for the generous donation!

19 December 2010

Winners are grinners :D

I drew the winners of my birthday extravaganza giveaway today!

The prizes were...

A little baking set:

 A super cute panda spoon from Bob Boutique:
And a gorgeous necklace by Melbourne designers Oh Deer:

And the three lucky winners are:
Heidi - baking set
Carmen - necklace
Dee - panda spoon

:)

Congratulations, I will be in touch soon to post your prizes to you.

And to everyone else who wished me a happy birthday, thank you so much.

08 December 2010

Birthday giveaway extravaganza!

Today's my birthday!
I've had one party already, and will have some more celebrations - breakfast with some of my wonderful colleagues before work this morning, drinks on Friday night, and dinner plus Bon Jovi concert on Saturday. I am such a lucky girl.

Yesterday afternoon I came home to a myriad of disasters, but I also had an early present from Mum and Dad waiting for me.
A massive esky of cheese from Ashgrove Cheese in Tasmania! (I've been to the farm outside Devenport.) Thank you so much Mum and Dad :) I love cheese as much as life. I needed a drink after the disasters (broken car, lack of shower, broken house phone, forgetting to take my pants to neighbours when I had a shower there...) so I have already sampled some blue cheese with my wine - it's delicious!

28 has been the best age! Freelance writing opportunities, TV presenting, radio interviews, great friends, a little romance, being onstage with Bob Evans and meeting Callan Mulvey twice, and only one stay in hospital for a short six hours. 29 better be this good or I am staying 28 forever.

To celebrate my birthday with you, I am giving away three presents! I love giving away presents!

A little baking set:

A super cute panda spoon from Bob Boutique:
And a gorgeous necklace by Melbourne designers Oh Deer:
To win a present, all you need to do is leave a comment on this blog entry (leave your email address so I can contact you if you win). If you want to, you can let me know what present you'd prefer. The giveaway ends on 16 December at midnight Australian time. I will draw three winners at random.

There is also a special series commencing on this blog tomorrow. It's all because it's my and the blog's birthday week!

The series is called Enough about me, let's talk about YOU for a minute. I hope you love it as much as I do - it was fun and inspiring to compile.

If it's your birthday today too, happy birthday to you!

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