tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post6223690806311902096..comments2024-01-16T01:42:41.699+11:00Comments on Tune into Radio Carly: Never apologise for they way you look. Accepting your lot in life part 3.Carly Findlayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-46735943456684857282012-05-14T22:16:56.214+10:002012-05-14T22:16:56.214+10:00What a powerful post. I think we all apologise too...What a powerful post. I think we all apologise too much at times just being who we are.<br /><br />Never change Carly, you are such an inspiring woman :)Stephnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-62765628805577277982012-05-04T07:36:39.690+10:002012-05-04T07:36:39.690+10:00Wow, thanks for a fantastic post Carly! One, for b...Wow, thanks for a fantastic post Carly! One, for being so brave and sharing some very personal battles and two for making me more aware of how much I do this myself. And why? For some reason I tend to be naturally geared toward apologising for everything, my fault or not. It's time to evaluate this behaviour! <br /><br />I think everyone should read your blog. Just sayin' XMelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10860490484042658004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-25753034574745208102012-04-04T08:05:27.119+10:002012-04-04T08:05:27.119+10:00Hope you didnt take my comment as rude as it wasn&...Hope you didnt take my comment as rude as it wasn't meant to be. P.S. I wasn't questioning what the tag states, I meant the kilosAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-47230411367696591812012-04-03T21:42:07.252+10:002012-04-03T21:42:07.252+10:00Carly this breaks my heart but makes me so proud t...Carly this breaks my heart but makes me so proud to hear you say all of this at the same time. Can't count the number of times Ruby has been out with me and stared at by young and old alike. As she's getting older we now deal with her "scaring" the younger children of good friends of mine, some of whom refuse to come into our home because she's so "scary". (The fact she gets soo excited and overly social and totally in-your-face does NOT help though miss Ruby!!)What I love about her though is that she has no clue about how she looks, she feels as special as she is. Am learning so much by reading your words as ever, thoughtful and amazing to hear from your perspective. I'm trying hard to be a "reformed" sorry person too (and spent the last few hours of her labour with "I'm sorry" as my mantra as I couldn't push out her undiagnosed craniosynostosis head, so much so that the obstetrician made me promise after her birth never to say it again!) Anyway, a big essay here Carly, I'm sorry!Hope you're having a good week!kellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05280632930386464253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-41216174240560480272012-04-03T20:58:21.753+10:002012-04-03T20:58:21.753+10:00Thank you so much Lilli :)Thank you so much Lilli :)Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-82438435646117046222012-04-03T20:57:53.201+10:002012-04-03T20:57:53.201+10:00Thank you Lisa - thank you for your continued supp...Thank you Lisa - thank you for your continued support xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-14984482937566846602012-04-03T20:57:15.804+10:002012-04-03T20:57:15.804+10:00Thank you so much. Not seen you here before, so th...Thank you so much. Not seen you here before, so thank you for stopping by xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-51145081315567750032012-04-03T20:54:42.377+10:002012-04-03T20:54:42.377+10:00Thank you so much Shelley xxThank you so much Shelley xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-12617276921771070052012-04-03T20:53:09.140+10:002012-04-03T20:53:09.140+10:00Thanks Bec, you are absolutely right - the hard co...Thanks Bec, you are absolutely right - the hard comments stick. So I've been saving all the good ones xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-41265911137475271192012-04-03T20:51:51.873+10:002012-04-03T20:51:51.873+10:00Thanks Sarah. It is indeed frustrating - constantl...Thanks Sarah. It is indeed frustrating - constantly being the "face". And thank you for sharing it with your girls. So glad we are in touch xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-54000894413498550292012-04-03T20:50:44.497+10:002012-04-03T20:50:44.497+10:00Thanks MB. Your post gave me food for thought too....Thanks MB. Your post gave me food for thought too.Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-19039278288144506822012-04-03T20:49:34.368+10:002012-04-03T20:49:34.368+10:00Thanks Melissa. I am so glad I am able to send mes...Thanks Melissa. I am so glad I am able to send messages to people from all walks of life. <br />We are absolutely all valid.Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-49119480116879527022012-04-03T20:48:02.167+10:002012-04-03T20:48:02.167+10:00Thanks so much Rhi xThanks so much Rhi xCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-16918615190780211462012-04-03T20:47:28.902+10:002012-04-03T20:47:28.902+10:00:) Good on you Sarah! Be proud and don't let o...:) Good on you Sarah! Be proud and don't let others make you feel inferior. xCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-13344234314626322432012-04-03T20:46:42.874+10:002012-04-03T20:46:42.874+10:00And thank you for commenting Rachel xAnd thank you for commenting Rachel xCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-11243788766358284242012-04-03T20:46:09.867+10:002012-04-03T20:46:09.867+10:00Thanks Mum - you should comment more often! xxThanks Mum - you should comment more often! xxCarly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-26372567988257470272012-04-03T12:24:33.001+10:002012-04-03T12:24:33.001+10:00Thanks so much :) it's even surprising how muc...Thanks so much :) it's even surprising how much we apologise for other things. "Sorry to disturb you". "Sorry for saying".Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-36241863404848124912012-04-03T11:59:40.889+10:002012-04-03T11:59:40.889+10:00Thanks for sizing me up anon ;)
Everyone's bod...Thanks for sizing me up anon ;)<br />Everyone's body shape is different and just because you are a certain size clothing and the same weight/height as me, doesn't mean I am. <br />I'm quite big busted too. <br />And I can assure you that my clothing labels are all size 8-10. I even have some vintage size 7.Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-80924344103327202562012-04-03T11:48:00.706+10:002012-04-03T11:48:00.706+10:00Hi Carly,
I love reading your blog and do all the ...Hi Carly,<br />I love reading your blog and do all the time, but I feel a need to correct your calculations. I weigh 110 lbs (50 kilos),am 5'1" and a size 1-3 (4 aus). I normally don't mention these things but I know you like to be correct in what you write and this was inaccurate, if you are 50 kilos you cannot be a size 8-10 you would be a 4, just thought you should know. :) take careAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-62371804583929897922012-04-03T08:23:10.388+10:002012-04-03T08:23:10.388+10:00Fantastic post Carly...............xox mumFantastic post Carly...............xox mumjeanette findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13096775767943583308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-66494962836207916332012-04-03T06:35:58.127+10:002012-04-03T06:35:58.127+10:00An amazing post. We do all need to stop apologisin...An amazing post. We do all need to stop apologising for being ourselves. Thank you for sharing. Rachel xRedcliffe Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00781939430745328713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-40448689889068628722012-04-02T22:14:19.607+10:002012-04-02T22:14:19.607+10:00never ever EVER apologise! because you are amazing...never ever EVER apologise! because you are amazing!<br /><br />I find myself doing it all the time.. Im sorry for my depression.. you know what-- no more apologies! I not sorry for who i am! im proud of what Ive done and where I am and where Im going!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02519482775650749822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-78453864117780330082012-04-02T21:30:48.344+10:002012-04-02T21:30:48.344+10:00Fabulous post Carly xxFabulous post Carly xxRhi @ Hummingbird's Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01684186270132435867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-24772966400309985752012-04-02T21:22:30.672+10:002012-04-02T21:22:30.672+10:00I hear this. It taaaaalks to me, I can't even ...I hear this. It taaaaalks to me, I can't even count the number of times that I have apologized for the space I take up. A great post Carly, all kinds of wonderful and a reminder for everyone who apologizes for themselves for whatever reason that we are all valid.Melissa {Suger}https://www.blogger.com/profile/10297932355360477833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-445803202603695062012-04-02T19:42:17.095+10:002012-04-02T19:42:17.095+10:00you are beautiful...I wish you didnt have to const...you are beautiful...I wish you didnt have to constantly challenge peoples assumptions, I too loved Chrissie's piece. I cut it out for my girls to read, I dont want them to be defined or define others by this silly notion of what society thinks is beauty. Thanks for writing this Carly and thanks for being my newest friend xSarahhttp://www.thatspaceinbetween.comnoreply@blogger.com