tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post5122562798988346613..comments2024-01-16T01:42:41.699+11:00Comments on Tune into Radio Carly: The man who told me he was a rapist - a small update.Carly Findlayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-77959846016158288212013-06-16T01:00:49.893+10:002013-06-16T01:00:49.893+10:00Actually this could be a sort of good reminder or ...Actually this could be a sort of good reminder or to alarm particularly among the women for the safety purposes. Great work on this update Carly. I see it very helpful.Dave Thomashttp://www.simple1300numbers.com.au/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-73124377405630735962013-02-02T09:25:59.773+11:002013-02-02T09:25:59.773+11:00Lovely to hear your update Carly. Great work.Lovely to hear your update Carly. Great work.Robynhttp://teamoyeniyi.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-5563573482290273562013-01-29T23:46:18.519+11:002013-01-29T23:46:18.519+11:00Thank you Laurel - I was impressed by VicPol for f...Thank you Laurel - I was impressed by VicPol for following it up. I'm also glad my blog posts were taken seriously too. Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-76130097725796375712013-01-25T21:53:34.915+11:002013-01-25T21:53:34.915+11:00I was really heartened to read this update. So gla...I was really heartened to read this update. So glad to see the police devoting time and resources to this matter and others like it. Many offenders start out with smaller steps - they do not go from nothing to rape. They may start by making lewd comments or stealing underwear or flashing etc. The more information we have on these patterns of behaviour, the more likely we are to be able to identify perpetrators etc. Laurelhttp://nanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-38218706385032554382013-01-19T20:56:52.247+11:002013-01-19T20:56:52.247+11:00Thanks Cathy. The policewoman asked if I was scare...Thanks Cathy. The policewoman asked if I was scared at any stage - I said no, just disturbed at the man's behaviour. Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-44160323849224439332013-01-19T20:56:02.335+11:002013-01-19T20:56:02.335+11:00Thank you so much Kate - I will check out this lin...Thank you so much Kate - I will check out this link. I think the lack of anonymity would be one thing that stops people reporting assaults and suspicious behaviour. <br />The Policewoman did tell me that my report will remain confidential. I thought twice about blogging this post, but I chose to leave the descriptors that may identify the place and the man involved. Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-17875665914172509382013-01-19T20:53:08.654+11:002013-01-19T20:53:08.654+11:00Thank you - I hope I have helped someone - even to...Thank you - I hope I have helped someone - even to the point that this man thinks twice about the words he uses when meeting new women. Carly Findlayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-5276000477746870052013-01-19T18:14:23.459+11:002013-01-19T18:14:23.459+11:00Good on you for having the courage to make that fi...Good on you for having the courage to make that first call. Maybe it was just all talk (even though that in itself is disturbing) but who knows. Your info could indeed be the missing piece to a bigger puzzle. Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12100344594099646839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-38450169880724055052013-01-19T12:25:51.830+11:002013-01-19T12:25:51.830+11:00Found the the page carly and here is the link. I&#...Found the the page carly and here is the link. I'm prety sure its Australi wide.<br />Its called Alternative Reporting Options<br /><br />and heres the link with all info including reporting forms etc <br /><br />http://www.police.qld.gov.au/programs/adultassault/altReportOpt.htm<br /><br />Kate BxKate Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03507601326963843199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-26386766070412784922013-01-19T11:51:03.386+11:002013-01-19T11:51:03.386+11:00Carly there is actually a nation wide reporting of...Carly there is actually a nation wide reporting of sexual assaults/threats that people can do anoynmously and the data is cross checked and used to idenitify potential predators. I have used it with clients and I cant for the life of me remember what it is called. I was approached by QLD police in my last job that this reporting system existed but I'll get some more details for you when I ring my old workplace on Monday.<br />Kate BxKate Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03507601326963843199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-37916695303970212982013-01-19T09:28:56.158+11:002013-01-19T09:28:56.158+11:00Who knows how many women you may have helped from ...Who knows how many women you may have helped from experiencing the trauma if ring raped. Good on you Carly. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com