tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post3540399573994853798..comments2024-01-16T01:42:41.699+11:00Comments on Tune into Radio Carly: On falling (in like)Carly Findlayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01368145710452826385noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-25047068927747850632010-09-04T18:50:04.570+10:002010-09-04T18:50:04.570+10:00Hi Carly
Lovely post as always...
Finding someone...Hi Carly <br />Lovely post as always...<br />Finding someone to love is always hard...<br /><br />Good luck!<br /><br />SPLinnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00256876153716588894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-28012131089853390682010-09-03T19:31:35.616+10:002010-09-03T19:31:35.616+10:00Thanks for such an honest and courageous post, Car...Thanks for such an honest and courageous post, Carly, I am sure that a lot of people can relate to these feelings, even if they can't completely understand what it is like for you, personally. I remember feeling like this after making it all the way to my 20s without a guy ever even showing interest in me. Thankfully, though, I only had to meet one and six years later, it is still working. I wish you much happiness and success in life, gorgeous, including finding that one prince charming that will sweep you off your feet!!Hayley Cafarellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03366835595019514161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-84876736385988582282010-09-02T23:33:42.308+10:002010-09-02T23:33:42.308+10:00I loved this post too - I can really relate. I'...I loved this post too - I can really relate. I'm pretty much the only one of my friends who is single so it can be frustrating always feeling like the odd one out. I consider myself a very smart, successful, self-sufficient woman as well, but it doesn't mean I don't feel lonely and long to have a partner to share my life with. Everyone wants that. It's part of being human. And everybody tells me I'll meet someone when the time is right/when I'm not looking, blah blah blah, and that's what I could say to you but I'm sure you're maybe like me and get sick of hearing it! Cynicism aside though, I do think that if you go through life with a positive attitude and take care of yourself that you will be more likely to find the right person for you. And even if you don't, you will still have a happy and healthy life because you'd be living it for you and no one else. *hug from Canada*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07451217175469353265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-15272086564902635332010-09-02T20:50:55.704+10:002010-09-02T20:50:55.704+10:00A beautiful post, Carly!
You know what? There ar...A beautiful post, Carly!<br /><br />You know what? There are issues in my life that I can substitute for your cast of gorgeous men. Only mine aren't as easy on the eye.<br /><br />Take care and much love.<br /><br />SSG xxxSydney Shop Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05813953421175387706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-5402214406563245582010-09-02T20:43:05.594+10:002010-09-02T20:43:05.594+10:00Sadly it isn't just twenty-somethings who feel...Sadly it isn't just twenty-somethings who feel this. I'm in my late 30's and still feel this way - but then it wouldn't be as meaningful if it didn't lift our spirits and give us hope (as well as crush them down again from time to time).<br /><br />Everyone always has wise words such as it will happen when you are not looking etc. But really whatever happens you should be happy. Relationships can be great, but being in the first few months of love involves intoxicating highs with moments of fear, insecurity & worry (but no-one ever talks about them). And then even when you settle into something calmer you may be very much in love, but you can still feel terribly lonely and much more vulnerable after a fight. And there are times when you just really crave your own space, but you have to put the relationship first even if it is hard. So either way, the grass on the other side has flashes of green.<br /><br />If you can be happy in yourself and content with your life, you will be happy whether you are in falling in love, settling into love or falling out of love. Just remember that anyone who loves you is very very lucky to have you in their life, and they should treat you accordingly. If they don't then the choice is easy. If they do, well that is absolutely what you deserve.<br /><br />Take care Carly - I really love your blog.<br /><br />A friendAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-75525068804740873092010-09-02T19:39:55.081+10:002010-09-02T19:39:55.081+10:00That is so beautiful Carly. I used to feel the EXA...That is so beautiful Carly. I used to feel the EXACT same way before I met V, and when I did it was just like, huh, ok so that's what it *really* feels like to fall in love, not in like. Corny, but gosh its magical when it happens. And I truly believe that will happen for you too hun - someone just as amazing as you is waiting for you out there :)<br />Hope you feel better soon<br />xoxoKittyCatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05391216303418765315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-35321383199364890952010-09-02T19:12:24.387+10:002010-09-02T19:12:24.387+10:00I agree with kyls. As a twenty something, I often ...I agree with kyls. As a twenty something, I often have thoughts like these too. You have expressed them far better than I could though.<br /><br />I too am finding myself falling (in somehting) at the moment. It is a strange and overbearing feeling at times.<br /><br />Hope your soreness feels better soon :-)<br /><br />Oh and I would keep that text message forever too. If only I was texted things like that - as opposed to pictures of cats and tables!Fihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13550749150175276586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1720872153813357167.post-53239613505072714562010-09-02T19:00:50.842+10:002010-09-02T19:00:50.842+10:00OMG Carly I shed a tear in that.
It's beautif...OMG Carly I shed a tear in that.<br /><br />It's beautifully written and sums up how so many of us 20 somethings feel.<br /><br />I also love that I am kind of quoted.<br /><br />Remember every frog is one step closer to that prince and god he better be worth the wait xxkylshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13894483414035224270noreply@blogger.com